The Conversation Stoppers: 5 Phrases That Can Ruin Any Interaction

Do not use these as icebreakers

Ever found yourself awkwardly fidgeting with your phone at a party, struggling to strike up a conversation? Despite our best efforts, some conversations take a nosedive thanks to certain phrases that are more conversation killers than icebreakers.

Don't repeat these phrases

From comparisons to dream sharing, here are five commonly used phrases that can abruptly end a conversation:.

5. I saw someone like you

Comparing someone to another individual rarely ends well, particularly if the comparison isnt flattering. This phrase often leads to an awkward silence, leaving both parties unsure how to proceed.

4. How is the job hunt coming?

While well-intentioned, asking about someones job search can inadvertently hit a nerve. Its best to avoid assuming someones employment status and instead engage in neutral topics until they choose to share their job search updates.

3. The funniest thing happened at work

Narrating workplace anecdotes might seem like a good conversation starter, but it often requires lengthy background information and context setting, leading to disinterest and forced laughter from listeners.

2. You look great, did you do something different?

Although meant as a compliment, this phrase can come off as backhanded, implying that the person looked less than great before. A simple compliment without the added inquiry is usually more appreciated.

1. I had a dream about you

Sharing dreams, unless of a romantic nature and reciprocated interest, can lead to discomfort and awkwardness. Dreams are often fragmented and nonsensical, making them poor conversation fodder.