Screengrabs from various news debates in Iraq. (X/MeghUpdates)
New Delhi: Television programs in Iraq have begun to host discussions on the acceptability of this law, delving into topics that many find deeply unsettling, including the physical implications for young girls at different stages of development. One notable segment, titled "Axis of Thigh-Rubbing" on the AlBashir show, has particularly drawn criticism for its content.
The proposed amendment has not only reached the halls of Iraqi parliament but has also flooded social media with reactions ranging from shock to condemnation:
Amit Jha highlighted the shift in legal marriage age, questioning the normalization of such discussions in public forums.
Jellyfish and Akansha Datta sarcastically remarked on the nature of these conversations, pointing out the perceived irony in the context of peace and community norms.
Varsha Pandey noted a concerning silence among women in regions where such laws might be prevalent, questioning the lack of protest against deteriorating women's rights.
Nitin Agrawal expressed horror at the potential legalization of child marriage, emphasizing the global need to condemn such laws for the sake of children's rights and dignity.
Sanjeev Kumar criticized the inappropriate focus of TV debates, advocating for a shift towards protecting children's rights and well-being.
The debate over this law, especially in public media, has been described as a disaster, not only for what it might legalize but also for what it signifies about societal values and the courage to challenge regressive norms. Critics argue that while such practices might not be common among the general populace, the law could empower those in positions of power to exploit it.
The discussion around Iraq's proposed law amendment is not just about legal boundaries but touches on deeper issues of human rights, child protection, and the moral fabric of society. As the world watches, the hope is for a resolution that prioritizes the safety and rights of children over any cultural or religious misinterpretations.
Prophetic teachings on marriage and conduct:
The Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, highlighted the virtues of certain actions on the Day of Judgment, stating that three types of individuals will find shade under Allah's throne when there will be no other shade: those who facilitate the marriage of their Muslim brothers, those who serve them, or those who keep their secrets.
Additionally, it is narrated from the Prophet that anyone who helps arrange a marriage between two believers will be rewarded immensely by Allah, including being married to a thousand houris in luxurious settings. Conversely, causing discord between a married couple invites Allah's wrath and curse, both in this life and the hereafter.
On Marital Relations:
Anal Intercourse: The predominant scholarly view is that anal intercourse with one's wife is permissible but highly discouraged. It is advised to avoid this practice, especially if it displeases the wife.
Age of Consummation: Sexual intercourse with a wife is not allowed before she reaches nine years of age. Other forms of physical intimacy are permissible. If intercourse occurs before this age and does not result in deflowering, it is considered sinful. However, if it leads to deflowering in a specific manner (merging certain bodily passages), the man is permanently forbidden from further intercourse with her, though she remains his wife for legal purposes like inheritance and maintenance.
Financial and Legal Obligations: If a man deflowers his wife before she is nine, he must pay a form of compensation akin to blood money, alongside other financial responsibilities like maintenance, which continue even if they divorce or she remarries. If the wife is free (not a slave), she is entitled to half the blood money of a man plus her dowry. After she reaches nine, if deflowering occurs, while it doesn't prohibit further relations, providing for her is still recommended.
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